The essential visit to a tailor

Without a Walmart or Target at hand, getting clothes in undeveloped countries like Benin is a unique experience. As missionaries, one way that we honor our host country is to assimilate to their clothing standards to the best of our ability. It isn’t required, per sé, but it could be a shock and offense to ignore the accepted ways of life, particularly when it comes to clothes.

I learned quickly that Africans really love to dress to impress if at all possible. I mean – check out these gorgeous ladies! So much color and personality in their choices!

The formality of wearing nice clothes is a show of kindness and solidarity, and for us as visitors, it means that we value their culture. The process of getting these clothes, however, is a bit of an adventure. (I wrote about this many years ago when we first lived in Niger, but its been awhile, so I thought it was time for another quick look!)

Step one: purchase fabric at the market.

Step two: decide what kind of style you want and take it to the tailor.

Step three: Go to the tailor and get measured and wait about one week. This trip, I decided to go to a local sewing school for boys and girls. A Christian man in the community started two such schools to help young people learn a trade that will help them earn a living in the future.

Step four: Go back to the tailor to try on the clothes to make sure they fit. Allow the tailor to adjust them if needed. Then wait while they iron the clothes, and fold them perfectly.

Look at these very practical old-school irons they use! They are really heavy and filled with hot coals. No electricity needed!

Voila! Now get ready to receive loads of compliments whenever you step out.

Do you think this would ever work in YOUR context?

Would you like to wear these colorful, fancy clothes?

Snapshot: the office

Andy and I have been spending a lot of time with our noses in our computers to finish our curriculum, but I thought some of you might like to see what our office atmosphere is like. This lovely building (above) has a large multipurpose meeting space and several smaller offices. It is equipped with excellent internet (Starlink – thanks Elon!) and plenty of filtered water and Nescafe to keep us happy.

It is simple and welcoming. When we need to meet with someone, we have a comfortable outdoor space nearby, called a paillote, which is a french word that means “thatched hut”.

Here is where we have spent many hours with pastor D and his wife, working and re-working the material we will start teaching next week. There is usually a slight breeze to keep us cool, and the atmosphere is open and lovely.

We are grateful to have the freedom to meet like this, in such a beautiful space! I only wish I could invite my family and friends to join me here in the paillote for a cup of coffee and conversation.