The essential visit to a tailor

Without a Walmart or Target at hand, getting clothes in undeveloped countries like Benin is a unique experience. As missionaries, one way that we honor our host country is to assimilate to their clothing standards to the best of our ability. It isn’t required, per sé, but it could be a shock and offense to ignore the accepted ways of life, particularly when it comes to clothes.

I learned quickly that Africans really love to dress to impress if at all possible. I mean – check out these gorgeous ladies! So much color and personality in their choices!

The formality of wearing nice clothes is a show of kindness and solidarity, and for us as visitors, it means that we value their culture. The process of getting these clothes, however, is a bit of an adventure. (I wrote about this many years ago when we first lived in Niger, but its been awhile, so I thought it was time for another quick look!)

Step one: purchase fabric at the market.

Step two: decide what kind of style you want and take it to the tailor.

Step three: Go to the tailor and get measured and wait about one week. This trip, I decided to go to a local sewing school for boys and girls. A Christian man in the community started two such schools to help young people learn a trade that will help them earn a living in the future.

Step four: Go back to the tailor to try on the clothes to make sure they fit. Allow the tailor to adjust them if needed. Then wait while they iron the clothes, and fold them perfectly.

Look at these very practical old-school irons they use! They are really heavy and filled with hot coals. No electricity needed!

Voila! Now get ready to receive loads of compliments whenever you step out.

Do you think this would ever work in YOUR context?

Would you like to wear these colorful, fancy clothes?

Summer 2025 Digital Newsletter!

Hello family and friends!

We are trying something new with our annual summer letter – you may have received our postcard in the mail and scanned the QR code to get here, or maybe you just stopped by to check in on what’s happening with us. Either way you will discover some interesting info about what last year was like and what this coming year might look like.

Q & A:

Click on the question to watch a short video response from us.

Q: Describe Benin (and how it compares to Niger). (1.12 minutes)

Q: Tell us about some of the people you met in Benin? (3.55 minutes)

Q: What about ministering to women? Isn’t that one of your passions, Nikki? (1.36 minutes)

Q: What are you working on right now, (while you are not in Africa)? (1.42 minutes)

Q: Is God teaching you anything? (2.02 minutes)

Some family pictures

Map of west Africa – Where are Niger and Benin?

Photo Gallery from this past year

Videos from our time in Benin

Click here to see the students singing a worship song to start our class together. (1.37 minutes)

Click here to have Andy introduce you to some sheep. (24 seconds)

Click here to drive down a side road with us in Parakou. (32 seconds)

See the incredible murals in the big city, Cotonou, in Benin. (45 seconds)

Thank you for making it to the end of our first-ever digital newsletter. We hope you enjoyed the journey. 🙂 And thank you for your friendship and love – your prayers and financial support help us to keep serving in this way. Please reach out to us if you have any questions – even if it seems like a trivial curiosity about Niger or Benin or our life as missionaries. We enjoy sharing it all with you, truly.

May God encourage your hearts with his marvelous love.

With love, Andy and Nikki

2 Corinthians 1:20 “No matter how many promises God has made, they are ‘yes’ in Christ. And so through him the ‘amen’ is spoken by us to the glory of God.”

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